It’s fast becoming no secret that I am involved in two intertwined yet distinct non-conventional relationships. I have a beautiful partner and we are exploring an open relationship (a subject for a future post) and I am also exploring a power exchange dynamic with another man who I call Sir. Through both of these amazing […]Read More THE ALMIGHTY COLLAR: WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT
Written in the early 70’s, The Leatherman’s Handbook by Larry Townsend predates the peak of the AIDS crisis by almost a decade, and much of the information and references are either out of date or are at odds with our new understanding of the spectrum of sex and sexuality. That said, despite its age – […]Read More REVIEWING ‘THE LEATHERMAN’S HANDBOOK’: WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT
The first time I was sexually assaulted was the night my ‘cherry’ was ‘popped’ at the ripe and (by today’s standard) seemingly late age of nineteen. I had moved out of home and left rural New Zealand for the bright lights of Sydney only six weeks prior. I wasn’t to become aware that my virginity […]Read More GET FUCKING CONSENT: WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT?
For those of you who don’t know yet, my boyfriend and I broke up recently. (Insert dramatic pause to allow for gasps from the audience) I know, who’d leave this right? I’m a fucking delight. While this is true, I’m also man enough to admit that I’m an incredibly flawed individual who has a few kinks […]Read More LOVE IS DEAD, LONG LIVE LOVE: WHISKEY TANGO FOXTROT?